....Hated someone for no reason. I mean someone you never met?
You make fun of them, talk about them as though you actually know anything about them aside from a few facts you observe along the way or hear from someone else that may or may not even be true... and then you think horrible things of them, who they are and what they do become things you detest. You and your friends get together and bash this person. You talk about how much you despise them, but you don't even know them. Not really. And you dare to interpret their actions or words in whatever way suits you best, whether or not they are actually true, you don't care. You think you know who they are and you see through them... Every fiber in your body cringes and screams when you think about them and when you see that other people you know actually like them... you just think, HOW CAN YOU LIKE THEM? And you feel betrayed by those traitors. for no reason at all. It is all completely illogical.
And then you meet that person. And suddenly you forget why you ever hated them. You realize that the things you hated about them, those things were made up, or taken out of context. Irrational thoughts fabricated in your own delusional mind. And the more you get to know that person, the more ashamed and disgusted you feel about how you had the audacity and gall to judge them at all....
Think about it.... Am i talking about you?